Pride month is almost over but that does not mean you cannot get your loved one or your best friend a pride themed gift. You can show your boyfriend girlfriend or best friend how much you love them with one of these gifts that celebrate who they are. Happy pride gifting. http://www.thatqueerlawyer.com is a participant … More Pride Gifts For Your Loved One
The trees were laughing once more, dressed in their carnival clothes, the gold and scarlet of the autumn days. It was the season of hugs, afternoons with cold drinks and lovely smiles. The days were so cool and calm and golden leaves on the ground danced with the occasional gusts of wind. The people looked … More I Have A Crush On A Straight Guy
People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us … More Pain
Gay relationships just like any other relationships require effort and energy to make them work. I have over the years learned a few things that can help keep a relationship and make it enjoyable. These I have learned from personal experience and from observing friends who are in committed relationships. 1. Communicate The importance of … More 5 Tips For A Succesful Gay Relationship
You are fading away, And I don’t know why, You cannot go away, Ahead lays a long way, I cannot lose you again. I planted a bad seed, My mind I cannot feed It has to go like a weed Lest to death I bleed I cannot lose you again. You were hard to find, … More I cannot lose you again
I was elated a few days ago when I heard that Stephen Fry got engaged to his boyfriend Elliot Spencer. For some reason, I do not know why I was that excited. I think it is because Stephen 57, is one of my favourite English personalities who I find very funny and witty. For example, … More Love Never Felt So Good
They say no expectations; no disappointments, and that happiness is expensive. We are bound to be disappointed when we expect a lot from people. Disappointment comes easily to those who expect too much. This is no rocket science yet we find ourselves going through this cycle all the time. I wonder what makes us do … More Expectations and Happiness
I haven’t written here in a month! I must admit I have been suffering from writers block of late. When I started this blog, the idea was to share little snippets of my life, anonymously of course, which I might turn into a little memoir, again an anonymous one. The biggest challenge of writing anonymously … More Curve balls
Everyone has a love story. From our parents, to our friends, to the teenage boys and girls in school. I do have my love stories but that is a story for another day. This post has been inspired by the love stories that I am now witnessing thanks to greater freedom and acceptance in the … More My Kenyan gay love story
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